We knew each other about a year. I saw him act this way a few times to other people but never towards me. Obviously a red flag overlooked. I think it's a combo of his personality and some sort of personal struggle/crisis.
He is not open to counseling. My gut is he knows he is unhappy, he realized he would have to work through his issues to make a good M, and instead of working through them, he ran away. It seems too difficult and too much work.
Me:28, first M H: 33, second M Married: 08/08 Bomb: 10/08 H filed D and deployed: 12/08 Served: 04/09 I deploy: 07/09 Hearing date: 08/09
