Papers are drawn up and are in my possession - but I have not been officially served. Whether I sign or not, they will eventually go through in a few months. There is no work to be done. Yet he is still urging me to sign. He acts like a 5 year old throwing a fit until he gets his way. He does this but has never done it on me.

I just need to continue to stand firm, not let H pressure me and do what I feel is right for myself. The more I pray , the more peace I receive about doing nothing and waiting on God to lead me. I feel good about that.

Thanks for your input and support. It means a lot to me


Me:28, first M
H: 33, second M
Married: 08/08
Bomb: 10/08
H filed D and deployed: 12/08
Served: 04/09
I deploy: 07/09
Hearing date: 08/09