I agree with Michelle, but I'd also say that settling is always going to be true to a certain degree. You want things, he doesn't give you those things in the way you'd like to receive them, he thinks he's trying. At some point you need to decide how much you're willing to accept who he is and settle. You each compromise.
But you know him best, you know what he's capable of. If you reach the place where you truly think that you could never accept him as he is, even if he made some improvements that fit into his personality, than you need to be honest with yourself about that. And probably that means moving on. But if you think he's capable of more, than I'd try to be understanding and patient. Bridgestone over in WAS has been having an interesting time of changes/realizations her H has gone through over the past year.
