Jeff it's good that you are learning from all of this. You seemed to have a good handle on what you could do differently in the future.

At this time I really wouldn't make many plans with her. Don't set yourself up for dissappointment and you said it yourself, don't give her too much info.

Be mysterious, but happy and upbeat. You don't have to return her calls so readily. Remember you are off having fun on your own.

Hangover with OM doesn't sound like much fun. If all he is, is party fun that will get old soon.

Be her friend right now. She seems to see you that way right now. You do have your life Jeff. It will never be like it was, and the wonderful magic that was in the beginning of your M is gone, but you can build a better M.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"