I don't know if you've ever said if you and H do the every other weekend thing with the kids?? I think you said you don't ... how often does he see them?
My H lives with his 25 yr old and only stays at his apt when he has kids... his 25 yr old has one bedroom apt too.. what a joke.. nice and cozy.... I know for almost certain that my H will not come back - not sure if I would want him if the OW dumps him... I want him to come back because he wants too not because we are the next best option... I'm quite sure we'll be D before he has his rock bottom.... you never know though right..
I honestly though my H would have been out of the house a couple of months and then been begging to come home and miserable being away from us and the kids... it hasn't happened has it.
I'm not doing good tonight - I made the mistake of having nothing planned tonight and I cry every time H leaves with my kids... I miss them so much!
fill us in PM -
Me: 38/H:40 M:7yrs TG: 10yrs 2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old Bomb 8/22/08 OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old Moved out 9/22/08
