ditto what BegMind said...and I'd add, you know you could have held your breath to show her ......well, what? well, just to show her!!!
I think the texts, as short lived as that promise will be, are actually going to be good. You'll have a record of her nuttiness. Now, sorry if this makes all of you bristle but I found huge significance in w's tears. She's too sad to be indifferent so you cannot say that you don't matter. You do. I don't know wth that means, if anything, to YOU. But don't say she's indifferent. She wishes she were.
She's dug herself into a hole she doesn't know how to get out of, so be it. And just for my own curiosity, didn't you say she denied A #2 and 3? I mean, what the hell is actually going on? She wants out or not? What does she SAY about the divorce? Does she act surprised? Shocked? Victimized, and if so, how?
Point me in the direction of the right posts and I'll re-read them, but I only recall the one, ons and her confession of it. Thought she flirted with OM also, but didn't know there were definite A's. Maybe a moot point. Don't want to open old wounds, but sometimes I forget how the heck YOU got here...
you're a good guy FIB. Seriously. (( j ))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016