Hey Ms. Jen, thank you so much for posting. The sad thing is, my home has been very calm throughout this due to me. I have been kind throughout with only four or five backslides during the 19 months. Alright, they were big ones, but for the most part, h and I have gotten along like acquaintances.

But now he has said he is leaving for good. He wanted to do it slowly over two weeks for son's sake. So, I might not have to make that decision as he has been gone for four days.

I guess I will see what happens over the next few days. I do know that I have to file next week and that is making me sick.

Interesting that this started when my h turned 50 also.


Last edited by beginnersmind; 01/16/09 10:57 PM.