No-OOOO this is wrong - sorry kalni - to air this on your thread...
this is too much like "advice" and "tin pot counselling" - this board is best when it poses questions to make you think - to make you think in a different way sometimes about your situation...
Keep your level head about the reality of your situation- by all means listen to other views - but they know nothing (really!) about how it plays out in the real world! - your world!
Best - GFI
Me: 40ish W: 40ish Together: 20 ish years Married: 10ish Years
