I've Come Full Circle 23

[kat727]

i tell you this stuff is never ending! D10 and D8 and S16 all did really well in school. S13 not so much. Ex contacted the school and called me all a fire. This is all sons responsibility he says. Have I been doing this and this and this? Well I didn't take that well and went a bit in to forbidden territory.

I told him I am doing the best I can. I do see him doing homework but I also know he is doing better emotionally then say last spring. His grades don't reflect that. Lots of missing assignments. He has already been sick 3 or 4 times this past semester and my guess is that he isn't making up the work. I am helping the girls with homework and S16 too. S13 rarely asks for help. I do ask him if he has his homework done and he usually says he doesn't have any.

I know he can do better but I felt as if he was blaming me for his poor grades. I said everything effects everything else. He got snotty and said so you are blaming me! I said no but you help contribute to the situation just like I do. (Because he did sort of blame me). I told him I would take care of it.

My boss really doesn't want him calling just for this reason, it upsets me. I went to lunch and TM to ex that I am sorry, I didn't handle that well, lot's of stress. Should have asked how do you think we can deal with his issues.

He replied Thanks, I will get you a copy of what the school sent. him take any blame of course not, he is Mr Perfect. UUURRRRGGGHHH


Kat

hould have asked how do you think we can deal with his issues.