Advice Please..Con't.

[StayHopeful]

Jack are you kiddin, You know how I feel.

[Jack_Three_Beans]

I think I do.

Assumptions, kill them.

[Jack_Three_Beans]

Let me clarify...

How do you act? Be honest in that, I don't need all the internal workings of testosterone coursing through a dissappointed man's system feelings.

[StayHopeful]

Yep, I've been backsliding... Looking through all the posts and rerunning everything in my head. I know, "FOLLOW THE RULES RON"... No passes issued right. Back on the right path...

[Jack_Three_Beans]

I'll go first.

When I wasn't getting any.
Everything became a slight. Her sleeping on her side fo the bed, not touching me at all, pi55ed me off. Her pulling away from me or turning her cheek toward me when I went to kiss her pi55ed me off further.

So passive aggresively I retaliated, I was grumpy and did things on purpose to upset her as well, I mean, f**k it, I was married right I was entitled to sex.

ROFLMAO...

yeah right.

What an idiot I was.

I did all those stupid little things because I was hurt, because my wife didn't want to touch me or have sex with me...boo fing hoo.

My little passive aggresive BS pushed her closer to the OM, and made me look oh so (sarcasm) attractive. I mean what woman wouldn't want to get all sexy and hot with a sulky little boy?


Your turn.

[Jack_Three_Beans]

Oh yeah...

That passive agreesive stupidity...its a downward spiral, like a maelstorm. The whirlppol that sucks down and kills stupid sailors.

[StayHopeful]

No disrespect Jack, But, How do you know she wouldn't have gone to the OM anyway ? As for me, I assured mine that I understood and I didn't mean to pressure her. It was dropped right there.

[Jack_Three_Beans]

You're not answering the question.

Oh she would have, my actions made it easier, I might as well have started her car for her.

[Mach1]

This is the hardest part to deal with. Having them there is hard enough, but having them there when they don't want you ? It's a killer to the male ego.

Don't be in the center of that vortex man. It will take you under quick.

Accept that she is not herself right now, and doesn't want that from you. I know how hard it is to watch a MLC'er not want any affection. Hence the balancing act on the edge of the bed.

It is easier to pull than it is to push, I.E. the front wheel drive car concept. So would you rather attract her towards you? Or push her away.....

I'm thinkin I see a goal in your future........

[StayHopeful]

Your Right M1, the light is on...

Jack to answer your question, it bothers the hell out of me to know the supposedly, one and only in my life, can't stand the thought of me touching her...