Thank you all. This morning she called me and apologized for talking to the most recent OM. I told her that it would be all or nothing for me; that I won't be just her friend, she's either my W or not. She has to make a decision. She said she would stop talking to OM, but that for now all she could offer me was her friendship. I said I loved her far more than that, and while it would hurt me tremendously to lose her friendship, that pain would be less than having her in my life as just a friend. I am making her choose. Later I get a call from her, but she didn't mean to call (her phone accidentally dialed), so I listen in, and I can hear her talking to her friend about the OM, and how she had talked to him last night, and how she didn't want to get physical with him yet, and blah blah blah. She is such a liar and so manipulative, and yet I keep buying her crap! I just don't know what my problem is. Why do I constantly keep believing her BS?? I'm making her make a final decision tonight and I hope I won't go back on my word...
