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[Jayce]

Didn't read far enuf B4 I posted. Duuuuh. OK, she still doesn't know what's wrong. But the part about disliking kissing?? Is that new? There must be some reason she recoils from touching like that. Does she hug & kiss your D?

I don't think you can deal with that alone. Do go for counseling sooner rather than later. First, for yourself and second to get a professional's opinion on how to handle what's going on there. The only women I know who avoided kissing were turned off by the breath of their H w/a 25 yr. cigarette habit. (Brushing can't get it out of the lungs). That's not the same as feeling their space was invaded.

Thinking of you & wishing for a better outcome.
J