Ral,

Yes....let her lead and validate

Yes....validate and listen closely

Kinda...you don't have to necessarily walk away, but go back to the new thing that you were doing before.....

Physical contact? You should be initiating NONE of this right now....Give her space....

If she does? Don't expect her to have an epiphany afterward....it's just a physical release.....you can do that without her....

Dude......It's not really THAT hard to get YOURSELF together. That is what you need to focus on right now. Find yourself and let her walk the path she has chosen.....

Stop looking for the quick fix....not gonna happen..

Are you seeing a councelor ?