I don't think it's fear of my marriage ending and being alone. That actually sounds pretty good right now.

Fear of disrupting my kids lives? Yes.

Fear of blowing it in the 4th quarter? Yes.

Fear of pushing her when I think what she needs is space? Yes.

Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.