LOL Pup. Almost sound more like Dr Suess than Forrest.
My good friend D told me a couple weeks ago that she thinks W needs a push. And that's coming from a woman who had an A of her own 10 or so years ago.
Need to think on this guys. Maybe I don't want to do the stuff you're suggesting because it HELPS me detach and progress towards walking away. Maybe in the back of my mind that's what I really WANT, but just haven't convinced myself yet. So if I just let her continue to NOT try and there by increase my anger and distance, I'll get where I want to be, which is not with her.
Boy, there's some pysco babble huh? I don't think that's the case, but I wonder sometimes.
I hear ya WDID. I KNOW you can't go by your own timelines. I know it's all going to go according to her timeline. I just don't know if I have it in me to give it the time she needs anymore.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.