All we are saying is that from our experience in this, the sooner you get your self together and implement this for YOU, the better YOU are going to feel. In time, you will see that we really aren't bustin you wide open.
No one person here is here because we wanted to be, and I would assume that this part of our lives is very sacred to all of us. You will also see that the hands that are extended to you right now are trying to pull you along on this journey.
One thing that I wanted to tell you before was that living together in this.....There is no escape from it unless one of you moves out. I don't recomend that. But for the most part, it is Okay to occasionally have down times.....as long as you deal with those times positively. React to them different than you have in the past.
You will live your life on a stage, and you are not the leading actor. Your reaction to this, and how you spin it for YOU, will make the difference.
