Thanks MWG. I did ask h if he asked the Dr about him sleeping alot and after eating. It wasn't clear to me whether he talked with the Dr about that or not. I do know that depression can make you want to sleep all the time.

My h did say that the other night he went to bed at a reasonable time and got up at a reasonable time and he felt rested. I think probably part of his problem is that he does not have himself on a good sleep cycle. Staying up all night and working then sleeping for a few hours and then working all day.

I am not sure what he does, but I do see work related e-mails from him around 1-4am, so that tells me he is up, and then again around 6 or 7am.

I just have to put it on a shelf for now. H is a grown man and doesn't need me giving him suggestions on when to sleep or not.

I am getting calls from my ex h. Just listening to all of his drama. I just listen and offer NO advice. He does say what do you think I should do Glam. I just say I am not sure ex h. I cannot FIX all these problems.

I just want my h back. Now I feel like I don't even have a h.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"