In a nutshell, I've been getting hang up phone calls the past couple months. Yesterday, former OM didn't hang up. He started with how much he loves me, and ended with how I have ruined his life. I told him I'm repairing my marriage and he can't call me. He said he was going to change his phone number and he didn't want me to EVER call him and he would NEVER call me again. I hope this is true.
Yesterday when I tried to post on here it wouldn't let me so I have been getting advice from Sara from email. Thank goodness.
Just wanted to update my sitch and if anyone thinks that it is easy to leave an OM, it is not. I knew that leaving OM would be hard, and I knew he would make it hard. Those of you that have spouses that haven't left yet or are trying to, this is what may be going through their heads. They know it will be awful.