Again, talk to her about this before it is too late. No reason not to. If you break the "no R talk rule" and she gets mad how will that change how you feel right now? It won't. If you keep the "no R talk rule" how is that helping you both? It isn't. Even if she moves in the right direction you are saying you don't care anymore because she isn't giving you what you need. You need to have the heart to heart now, and you two need to start making a plan TOGETHER.
