Hey Whatever..

Your thread is very intersting, lots of great advice. I didnt realise I was dark (dim?) but perhaps I am.. I havent really initiated for 5 months, since he started seeing ow, except for things about hte mortgage and I did send him an email in December asking if he had a good holiday. Other than that, if HE contacts me.. I respond. Is that whats called dim !? I dont know! I dont initiate but I am friendly when he contacts me. I dont mention ow and nor does he (apart from one meltdown last month). I would say if he DOES contact you, perhaps respond in a similiar tone and length (thats what Jody said, kind of match the mood of their contact) so he feels comfortable in contacting you.. but maybe leave it a while before responding?

I also felt very on edge and itchy for contact today.. I felt very wound up and restless so you could be right! There was a bit of an obsessive feel in the air.. I would say that was because the Moon squared Mars today making us restless and agitated and planet of love Venus made a quintile link to power and pyschological planet Pluto today... but others might think me mad!


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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