Originally Posted By: jojo1

... Building trust in him that he 'does' actually choose to come toward me...The consistent pattern gives me a feeling of stability...For the first time, I could wait with a feeling of trust. I think that is progress for the both of us...



jojo-

Let me know how it goes with the trust issue.

It's a biggie for me, after all I trusted my H that he'd honor our vows and look where THAT got me! I used to trust that he'd take care of me and look out for me, but I'm slowly realizing that I need to do those things.

Take care-


H 51/W 43
Together 24yrs/Married 19yrs
2 kids- D18 & S16
"I want out" July 2008
"I want out" Dec 2008
"I want you out" Aug 2009
Still in house thru it all