... Building trust in him that he 'does' actually choose to come toward me...The consistent pattern gives me a feeling of stability...For the first time, I could wait with a feeling of trust. I think that is progress for the both of us...
jojo-
Let me know how it goes with the trust issue.
It's a biggie for me, after all I trusted my H that he'd honor our vows and look where THAT got me! I used to trust that he'd take care of me and look out for me, but I'm slowly realizing that I need to do those things.
Take care-
H 51/W 43 Together 24yrs/Married 19yrs 2 kids- D18 & S16 "I want out" July 2008 "I want out" Dec 2008 "I want you out" Aug 2009 Still in house thru it all