1. I'm still in the same house and bed with the W. I can't just ignore the woman. I am trying to be happy, responsive, and yet not pursue. Not easy to do when any change in my behaviour is seen as I have a problem...
2. It is possible she is lying about an OM. She contends there is no one else, and there "are" some female issues going on...
3. I haven't dealt with these issues before. I am not comfortable, nor experienced with them.
This is like walking through a minefield just to clear it. My chances of stepping in doo doo are assured. I am being patient, and reading "The Divorce Remedy. As far as when and if I want to try to ML to my W, How do you know until you try ? Me, just being in the house, probably is perceived as pressure.
