Thanks for your understanding girls and yes, its definetly a pattern alright!

I agree K ! It started end May/June 07 for me, but then, he was showing signs by being snappy and stuff in yes, March 2007. I'm only going to get over him if I meet someone else. But then, I am pretty vunerable still, I'm not sure I am 'strong' enough to go out with someone so it probably is too soon hey.

And its notoriously hard to meet people down here, its a low population. Thats why I am sure Helen snapped my ex up and cant believe her luck when he rolled into view.

I feel so jealous that he has the great career, the shared house with mates soon, living in a beautiful village by the sea, the 'fun' younger girlfriend, mates he can freely go for drinks with, money to spend on holidays, no need to worry about his biological clock, someone who probably adores him and laughs at all his jokes...

Uhh.. I may have got that a bit wrong, but it seems that way from where I am sitting !!!
xxx