NO contact with H at all since he last came over which was Tuesday. I know the girls attempted to text him two days ago saying they needed a ride somewhere but he never texted them back.
I used to take it personally if he did not get back with me on something but now he does it to the kids as well. Gosh, I remember when he would call S18 every single day. H has not done that in a long time.
I am having to keep tabs on the kids cell phone minutes as we are winding down to zero minutes and I do not want them to go over as it is 40 cents per minute!! I noticed H gets his daily calls from ow when she gets off work and those are getting longer (in minutes) but I don't say anything to him. If he complains that we went over the minutes all he has to do is look at his own activity. I have to laugh though because we never called each other right when we got off work. Oh how I love to see how these ow have their MLC men on a leash! Really, all we can do is sit back and laugh.
Detaching has been easy when you keep busy like I have been. Yeah, when he leaves it is emotional if only for a few minutes and then I bounce right back.
Other than that, nothing else is new in MLC land.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19