Depends how you will present it to him. Maybe a toy waiting for him? Wallpaper with his favourite hero, a bed he likes?

Bbj, dont make the mistakes I did. The kids live it 50% thru you and 50% thru what they feel... Kids of this age at least, IMO.

If you are calm and "OK" they will feel better sooner than you think. Which, let me add, does feel strange when it happens too, because for a while you think kids will be a constant pressure for WAs, like a reminder of where the WAS should be, punishing and haunting him. When kids get better, it feels dicsouraging as far as reconcil is concerned... As if the only person remembering "this" is not what it should happen is the LBS, well me in that matter since I am only talking from experience.
K


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