FIB--beginnersmind has said some very wise things. Sad and difficult to hear, perhaps, but wise.

You are a rare and wonderful person, a man of integrity and a great father. All of those things shine through on your posts in spite of tremendous adversity.

I wish for you to find peace, and that one day you will find there's joy in life remaining.

M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012