Hope, sounds very much like your H is deep into his A, like mine. Not much you can do about that I am afraid. But you are great at doing 180s like walking out of the room when the meeting was cancelled. Remember, this man probably thinks he is God's gift to women. He THINKS you will pine over him and will be lost without him. Have you shown him any different? If you show that you really don't care, then maybe that will just get his curiosity going. Promising nothing here but just planting seeds. I know you feel down in the dumps but you are actually doing great.
My good friend said to me, there is only ONE thing on earth that is final. It's not divorce. It's death. Divorce is not the end of the world.
Who knows, maybe this is an opportunity in disguise. Maybe you will end up finding the love you deserve. We don't know what is in store for us. Don't borrow trouble and worry too much. Try to find peace everyday and be open to opportunities. Praying for you Hope.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
