It helps hearing that what I'm going through isn't uncommon. Maybe this is even how Rs work with WAWs.
The whole concept of piecing together a marriage means you don't get everything back at once, right? You get the marriage back piece by piece, and each piece requires its own restoration work.
Yes, I need to consider myself lucky. I have things so much better than most others in this situation. I have to keep that in mind.
me: 50 w (waw): 45 daughter: 9 m: 16 t: 19 bomb: 9/26/08 status: physical separation for 7 weeks, then work-in-progress R