I'd ignore the next bit, its just a valid excuse (without saying, I couldnt because of ow).. just par for the course.
Duh! yes, Ali - you are right!!!! It has just hit me about all the crap excuses he came up with last year too. God, I trust too easily. Oh well, it kind of makes it better for me. I was out doing something I really enjoy and he was stuck at home with a fan oven and ow.
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is very respectful of him, not to mention ow, or rub your nose in it.. so perhaps your H was doing that.
And I think this is true too. He would never rub my nose in it and also the whole not mentioning it through guilt thing too.
I did just say in passing that he was welcome to come along if he wanted (although I didn't say that he would have encountered my father lol! That would have been an interesting meeting:) ). He looked like he wanted to come and almost said yes then a funny look came over his face and he stuttered and I just said 'well it's on at 7.30 tomorrow night if you're free' and moved on.