Thanks Hope. I will think deeply about what you have written.
I sent an e-mail to H today just to say that the kids really miss his Mom around here. Nothing back. It's like I don't exist at all.
I think he has moved in with OW recently. They must be in honeymoon phase. I hope she gets sick of paying for the mortgage and have him live there rent free. I hope she is ready to support him the way I supported him financially for the first few years of our M. My H has extravagant tastes. He is sweating about money so he is saving money by moving in with OW. I hope she gets sick of it and feels used. Reality will set in their world soon. It's one thing to date, it's another thing altogether to live with each other, see each other at work and do EVERYTHING together.
Then they have to worry about real-life things like mortgages, bills, work, schedules, time away. I hope reality will bring them down to earth. Can't wait.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
