Thanks to Smurf for writing what I also thought, but was reluctant to post.
It is possible your wife is experiencing a lack of desire for some legitimate physical issue.
Given the rest of your marital situation, it is at least equally likely that her lack of sexual desire has to do with you. As Smurf has said, she is either currently turned off by the thought of being intimate with you, she is already physically involved with another man, or possibly both.
We don't do ourselves any favors by treading through these types of messes with our eyes closed.
And Smurf is on the mark yet again with the message here being that you are NOT leaving her be as you need to at this time.
LISTEN to her.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
