my h is still seeing the ow, he still isnt living home but tells me he is coming home, speaks about opening family business with my side of the family.
cake eating im sure but i do not know how to force his hand on ending it with her. going dark will not help me. ive tried it actually and all it did was let their relationship thrive more. but what else is there?
im afraid to give a true ultimatum because i know i will not follow through and proceed with a legal separation/divorce.
it seems nothing i do changes the situation. i can rant and rave about her, it doesnt hurt me. i can not talk about her at all and it doesnt help me.
any suggestions at this point? it just seems out of my hands.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
