Your H has made a choice to leave and be with the ow, this combined with the fact that he isn't supporting you as he should finacially means he doesn't have any rights to know! He has taken himself out of the family, and is chosing to not focus on you, so he has lost the right to know what you or your daughter is doing. One day he will be a very sorry man, but thats the price he has to pay for his actions! You have to stop focusing on him, worrying about what he is doing, thinking and focus on you and your daughter, because regardless of what he is doing you can't change it, and you will only drive yourself mad! Get out, be with friends, join some activities, do whatever you can to keep your self and mind occupied. I also agree with Cat you need to protect yourself and your daughter financially, get some orders in place to ensure you are able to support yourself and your daughter!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
