Thank you so much for your help. It is so nice to have you helping me and 'holding my hand'. Sometimes I feel a bit paralysed as to what to do as this is all quite new - the niceness coming from him. I am not letting my guard down though and have zero expectations!!
I have been thinking about stuff that I have always really wanted to do with my life but thought I wouldn't get the chance to do and one of then is that I'd really like to go and live in Sydney for 6 months and work and have fun, then maybe take 6 months off and just travel. I am going to make a list of stuff that I want to do and achieve and have the opportunity to do now I have no one left to answer to but myself. Once I get rid of the house I will be free of responsibilities (apart from the cat!) so the world is my oyster, as they say.
I did text him yesterday using a mixture of all of your suggestions and got no reply but he sent an email yesterday (probably about the same time as I texted), and it suggested Monday at 6 to meet the estate agents. He also added this line at the end
Hope tonight goes well, I would have loved to come but the fan in my oven has stopped turning so the landlord is coming round. See you soon. H.
lol, well he is really a DAM (I love that a fan oven takes priority lol), I used to take those things so personally, but that is a nice thing to say. Whether he is genuinely being nice or being nice because of the house sale I don't care, it is just a relief that he is (for the moment anyway) not being so avoidant and being a bit more open.
I just sent a reply back saying
Morning,
I could do Monday at 6.30?
I was going to go into some of the concert stuff but it is pointless, if he had come he would have heard how cool it was. There was a choir over from the US and they were amazing, then our choir and another one from London. We did a really cool version of Immortal Bach
