Is the answer blowing in the wind?

[Loving_Life]

Trixi- Hugs. I agree, on Sun minimize any conflict if you can between H and SS- that will help. What about avoiding any R talks w. H too? It could be a 180, and you might feel less stressed. Not to mention there is a chance that this 'new you' that apparently doesn't think a lot about your R anymore, could leave a curious impression on H. The whole when you pull away, he draws closer idea. This is completely DB.

I totally know how it feels to live in agony/stress. Maybe some good stress relief would be in order- spa day? tai chi? massage? nature walks? Even better, what's something you can add into your weekly schedule, so you get treated and rejuvenated all the time. Treat yourself! You deserve it 10 times over! I find herbals/teas like chamomile and st johns or kava do help me relax too. I practically drink a cup every evening and it helps me a lot.

Good luck this weekend, keep us posted!