She was a WAW and I was/am a LBS. I've been on the MLC board for a few years. Someone hinted that I maybe piecing, so I decided to come here and see if I'm there.
I think my W's journey might be coming to an end. I want to be ready if this is true to start the piecing phase on the right foot.
If I read it correctly, piecing usually starts with a big fight. During the fight, the past is brought up. We had a good fight and my W did bring up the past. A symptom of my W's MLC phase was she didn't care about anything. It didn't matter what I did or say; I was just a ghost to her. So bringing up the past is a baby step in the right direction.