Thanks, Techguy - I think it's going to make things interesting for a while - since I don't think she was expecting that from me at all...as a matter of fact...just now she picked up my baby boy again - and once again she ignored me when I said hello - so I just laughed at it saying, "oh, you better say hello or I'm going to get medieval on your a$$" - totally disarmed her...and she then actually answered me when I asked her what she thought our baby's favorite meal was (at her place). Pesto pizza...easy enough...anyway..the subtext/joke in my getting medieval is that I was a medievalist in grad school...I don't know if she got that part of the joke though...whatever...it's all the same to me...

One off thing worth noting - she was wearing a necklace I had given her tonight - on the outside of her blouse so it was clearly visible...I know not to make anything of it - and that's probably nothing more than a pretty necklace to her - but it was interesting to see her with it on again nonetheless - since I clearly pissed her off last night...

It was strange - but her anger just seemed laughable to me tonight. Like a little kid having a tantrum - when my S11 used to have his tantrums (around the age of four) I would just laugh at the intensity of it - and at how easily it would pass - it felt just like that with her tonight...so I won't bite at her anger-lure at all...no thank you.

Manly hugs back at ya, Techguy!


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