Try something different! Anything! As long as it's not displaying weakness or desperation. And politely calling her on her rudeness is as far away from weakness as you can get!
Just remember, don't judge the results too quickly. Many times people have a negative reaction at first. Kind of like a spoiled brat tantrum. Keep up the new behavior for at least two weeks. Then assess the results.
Manly strong hugs, Carlos!
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