I agree with DL. My wife came home but still considers us "separated". We haven't ML in almost a year and the last time she gave me a hug was 6 months ago.
I would say, just continue having patience. One of the problems I think we all run into is that there comes a point where we just get impatient or tired of being the one who is constantly giving and the other person not reciprocating in the way we WANT them to.
I had hit that point a couple of nights ago where all the hate and anger from the past 10 months came screaming out. I had to go for a drive at that point and let it all out without my W hearing. I did feel better after that and kept praying for more patience and tried to give my burdens to God. It is tough, but we're in it for the long haul. It's what makes us different from the WAS.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
