Okay that makes more sense. I like the detachment. That's healthy... and I think being open to life, chatting with people and just living in a positive way, taking care of yourself and loving yourself, your child and accepting the situation with her for what it is, is good. It's definitely not perfect, but you are doing the best that you can and being there for your son. It sounds like a good way to deal with an imperfect situation.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
