I am not sure what I will do. Kinda been thinking about that. I may wait and see if he says anything and proceed depending upon what he might say.
I am not ready for it to be final but if that's what he wants then I will give that to him. I have told myself that if it does go through then that will be it for me. I have told him that before too.
I have heard the line "you never know...people D and re-marry each other later on" from him. But I told him that there is no way I would go through the hassle of getting a D just to turn around later and re-marry that same person.
I know it happens all the time but that would not be me. When it is final...I will find a way to move on.
