I think that your approach is the way to go, being kind, friendly and giving and seeking respect are all very healthy things. Good for you.
I am sorry you were alone after that movie. That is the movie H said he wants to see when we had lunch on NYE. I think he identifies with Mickey Rourke's character's disillusionment. I have not seen it yet. I had said I was interested in seeing it and Hsaid maybe we'd see that together next. But from your description, I think he'd be better off seeing it alone.
I know you have been feelig a lot of sadness lately. How are you doing? Do you feel like you are moving through it, even if very slowly?
