Hey Michelle.. I dont understand any of this! Us English are lazy and it gets taken out at source, lol.

Its nice that he was being a little more open with you though, telling you about job stuff, but also, all the hassles he is having.

I know its hard to tell via IM.. but what jumped out at me is that you sound fine, balanced and he sounds totally miserable and like his life is in the toilet.

Sad hey? But like so many WAS here (like Mishka's x), they just seem to end up miserable!!

You sound good though and R is obviously taking good care of you!

Al xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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