if he doesnt bring it up, what will u do? will u proceed?

we were never legally separated, my h moved out, came back, and that when i found out there was someone else. it was all so new to me, we tried to make it work, then he freaked, asked for a divorce through mediation. i said no. and informed him all i would give was a legal separation.

he went as far as filing for the d and then changed his mind and we have been "attempting" to reconcile ever since.

are u ready for it to be final?

me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09