D7 knows what is going on. I told myself that I would not lie to her about things. Now I don't tell her that dad could not keep his pants up or anything like that. But she knows that we are D'ing and she is not happy about it. Tells me all the time that she wants us to be back together and live with dad again.
A few months back H had me spending the night a lot. D7 said to me that if we kept doing that maybe we would get back together. I just explained to her that was not going to happen. I did stop spending the night with him though. On my own accord but he has not asked me since to stay.
I could probably drag my feet on the legal stuff for a bit. H seems in no hurry to get it done. I really think he wanted to stay M and do what he is doing cause he is always telling me that I kicked him to the curb and filed.
He expects that I will finalize the D when taxes are done. Not sure how it will play out when the taxes are done. I do wonder if he will bring up the D or not.