That's exactly it. He sees everything as negative. I want nothing more than to make this work but if he pushes this divorce through so quickly, i don't think there's any turning back.
No, he always asked for sex. and I mean always. In my head, it seemed like he was nagging and pressuring me constantly. I guess like I nagged him to do stuff around the house. Just a vicious circle. But I also harbored so much resentment for his previous affair. That didn't help and I didn't address it in a constructive way.
I'm not so sure he's open to counseling, I think his dad somewhat pressured him into it.
I thought the deployment would work in my favor, force some separation time, absence and danger makes the heart grow fonder? but he's so busy trying to divorce me prior to going so that he can have his little side dish and not committ adultery again, all before he goes. And the sad part, I know, she'll never stick by his side the year and a half he's gone like I would and have before.
No solo de pan vive el hombre
Y no de excusas vivo yo.
