We have been S for almost 8 months now. But we are legally S. I filed D in May and all we are waiting on for the D is for me to finish paying my L fees which will be done in about a month now. Then the D will be final.
Yes he tells me all the time when OW calls or is calling. If H and I are together and the phone rings he will give me a look like "it's her" and if I ask he will confirm. If we are talking on the phone he will tell me if he has talked to her that day (which he talks to her EVERY day).
H's A has been going on for a year now. I found out about it about a month into it. It had 2 slack times where they were not talking cause she just up and dissappeared. That hasn't happened since Christmas and that was only for a week. Prior to that she stopped calling him for 1 month. But she is back calling full force again.
I picked up D7 from his house this afternoon after work and she cried all the way home. She wanted to stay with H and spend time with him. I had her call him on our way home to talk to him a bit. This is killing me.