If you would like I can sum up for you so you don't have to do all that reading.
H and I have been married for 18 years.. 2 kids (3 and 6)
Found out he posted a naked picture of himself on Adultfriendfinder in july 2006, subsquently found a letter he wrote to someone that was very explicit (digusting) Although I don't have any hard proof he cheated, it was almost just as bad.
He works a lot, out of state sometimes. Is a very hard worker. But doesn't seem to need to spend time with me alone unless its for sex. Can me very selfish, and mean. We are both hot heads, I've gotten better (although I think it may be me detaching) He has had an issue with porn. He's gotten better, but only because he's not home probably to view it. He's very critical of me, which also I have been trying to ignore.
That's the short of it.
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
