Hey lan - just a thought - if you ever fancy hooking up - given that you're not too far away from me i think - then i'd be more than game - with D if you like - your D and H are same ages...
You can find me on Fb as one of Kalni's friends and part of the DB group - i'm the bloke in the blue jacket with some hills (lakeland mountains) in the background...
it sounds like you have some serious thinking going on and i feel for you at the moment...lan - you've done so much to get to this spot...and I'm afraid i can't offer anything apart from to say KBO!
Well done for signing up for the run again! Get training soon! May will be here before we know it!
Best - GFI
Me: 40ish W: 40ish Together: 20 ish years Married: 10ish Years