need help, sex or no sex??

[EnergyAZ]

(sorry for multiple posts - wont let me delete them)




That WAS thing is a tricky beast isnt it?

I have a WAW myself, I know what I did to create it. And it was many things that contributed to her losing faith in the relationship, building up a cartoonish version of who I was as a person, and a distortedly negative view at our entire history together. Fortunately she is starting to come around and accept her parts that helped make the mess. But it took a good 18ish months for that to happen.

All I understand in your sitch - is he is walking away because of a lack of sex - which is his own damn fault - but he wants nothing to do with looking in the mirror?

This is tough and I apologize if I dont have much for you cause you 'can lead a horse to water but....'

The fact he is open minded to counseling sessions is good. To limit it to two visits is a bit silly IMO, but hopefully he will see some value in it and decide to go to more.

6 weeks before deployment? Here is to hoping there is a part inside him who wants peace with his loved ones before he goes.